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Profanity

It's not going to be squeaky-clean story. This happened to me once before, just about twelve years ago, now, sitting on my makeshift futon up in the 4th Davis double I shared with Aaron during my "official" senior year at Carleton. He was working at his desk while I rested with my back against the south wall, furiously typing on my laptop (a bulky Toshiba that had been a gift from Dad and Jane during the previous summer).

What I did during the summer of 1990 wasn't exactly a big secret. It wasn't exactly common knowledge, either. Back then, I shared it with more friends and acquaintances than I do today, sometimes talking about my experience late into the night. I was closer to it then. At the same time, I'd wanted to move on. It wasn't that I was bottling anything up, see, it's just that other things seemed more important than dredging through year-old memories.

Which was why it was surprising, a little, to read what I'd let myself write. There must not have been much in the way of a break during my relentless keyboard pounding, because as soon as I'd typed the definitive final punctuation mark, I looked up and saw Aaron with his arm over the back of his chair, eyeing me curiously.

"Shit," he said. "What the hell was that?"

"I dunno," I said, paging up, up, up. "It's about leukemia."

"Wow. I guess."

The thing was laced with expletives. It was raw. I can't remember, now, what I'd even set out to write that afternoon. A tidy little Hemingway-esque memoir, maybe, a clean, well-lit place. It didn't turn out that way at all: it was angry, explosive, a tangible reminder of how close to the bone that particular cut still throbbed.

Present tense: still throbs, at times, when I pick at it too much.

The profanity creeps in, and I am a willing fucking accomplice.

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rkb in 1990

A Few Notes

The bulk of this story takes place between March and September, 1990, and has been written in bits and pieces, fits and starts, over the years since then. Be forewarned that there's more than a little profanity. Some of this stuff still makes me very angry. I may try to work on a "PG" version at some point, but for now I'll let the chips fall where they may.

One final note: this is as mostly true a story as more than a decade of hindsight will allow. I can't say that everything is 100% accurate, but it's as close as I can get.

 - Robert K. Brown

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